Motivational Monday: Don't Be A Blessing Blocker

Lately, I've been seeing people who are blocking their own blessings...and I don't think they realize it. So many of us look for a clearly written sign in the skies which prevents us from seeing what's right in front of us.

How often do you see small victories as a preliminary blessing for a bigger blessing? Probably all the time. We are so accustomed to wanting things to be bigger, greater, faster, etc that when we receive something that is smaller, lesser, or slower we ignore it and put it to the wayside.

Before we can achieve big things we have to accept the small victories. Maybe you are in medical school, your big victory is to get your PhD...but your small victory is that you passed that major test or you met someone in your field who can be your mentor. Or maybe you're an entrepreneur. You want to someday own this international conglomerate but today you manage a small firm that has recently started to get more clientele.

My point is this, "Big things have small beginnings. So don't block your blessings because you expect or wish them to be bigger." The small victories add up and those blessings are a set up for the larger ones to come.

When God provides you with a blessing/ opportunity, no matter how big or small appreciate it and show him that you are ready for the bigger blessings to come.

Motivational Monday: On Abundance

Lately, I've been saying a little prayer or mantra of abundance. I noticed a while back every time I focused on the negative situations in my life, I would continue to get just that. On the contrary, when I focused on the positives in my life, I would get that and so much more. As I further delved into the arena of "unemployed entrepreneur," I stopped focusing on the no job= no money aspect and concentrated on the more time= more business aspect. So I give you for Motivational Monday, my little mantra of abundance.

"Dear Lord,
Please provide me with the abundance of time. The abundance of money and finances. The abundance of clients and contracts. The abundance of creativity and opportunity. The abundance of resources and support. The abundance of love and friendship. The abundance of patience and honesty. And most importantly, the abundance of faith and belief.
Amen."

In all honesty, it's isn't about what you don't have, but instead the abundance of what you want. It's about knowing what you want, putting it into the universe, and then going forth to seek it. It's about creating opportunities instead of waiting for them. Instead of "I wish I had a job," try asking for an abundance of job opportunities and then create them.

I hope my little mantra helps someone today because I know it's hard out there for us in the unemployed circuit, but opportunities are created by you.

The Unemployed Entrepreneur

The Job Market and the leeches it produces.

I like to spend a small part of my day watching CNN and reading local newspapers about the job market and unemployment rate. Most of them talk solely about how the unemployment rate has dropped from the last time they checked or how companies are not hiring. Sometimes they might provide us with a lead to a company that is looking to hire "X" amount of workers. What these media sources don't talk about is the questionable practices that are out there targeting down and out job seekers.

Like most job seekers, when an employer emails me asking me further questions about myself, I get very optimistic. Almost anything they ask me, I'm ready and willing to answer. When they request action to be taken, I'm ready to do it swiftly. But lately I've been realizing that just as there are scams targeting employers and their companies, so too are there worse scams targeting the unemployed.

Some questionable actions from employers that I've seen on my searches included following a link to get my credit score or run a background check, signing up for Yahoo chat for an online interview, awaiting a package that included an assignment and money for a personal assistant gig, preparing a writing sample for a publication and not receiving any kind of notification or follow up.

Several things stand out to me whether or not these were real opportunities:

• Companies are automating everything. From the resume selection to the interview process. Faster technology and the need to quantify our time is moving us away from person to person contact
• Scammers are like leeches. They suck the life out of you and hold on for dear life. The only way to avoid leeches is to not get caught in infested waters
• The need for better company background checks and regulation on sites like Monster, Careerbuilder, and Craigslist is needed now more than ever
• For the unemployed, standing out is the only way to get our foot in the door. And once our foot is there, we have to make a lasting impression
• As a job seeker, we need to do our research about every position and every company we apply for. If your gut tells you not to apply, don't
• If at first you don't succeed, try try try again

The job market is horribly discouraging and very depressing right now. You search and seek, seek and search to no avail. You think you've found something only to get attacked by a parasite. But as a job seeker and unemployed entrepreneur, I have to tell you that opportunities ARE out there and things will get better. What we have to do is prevent leeches from attacking us and become leeches ourselves...sucking up knowledge and experience to create our own opportunities. Hopefully then we'll all go from Unemployed Entrepreneurs to Employed Business Owners.

The Unemployed Entrepreneur