Showing posts with label SOA thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label SOA thoughts. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

If I knew then, what I know now...

Have you ever pondered to yourself, "if I knew then, what I know now I'd..." I'm sure we all have. I can say safely that I say it to myself ALL THE TIME. Some people might look at it as a statement of regret. A statement that "darn it I could have done anything, been anything, accomplished anything if I just knew the knowledge I have now back then."

To me, it's a statement of growth. A statement that you now acknowledge that you have the capabilities to not make the same mistakes or hold the same regrets again. A statement that you now know what needs to be done to get to the next chapter in your life. So let's try it. Let's ask ourselves "If I knew then, what I know now...what would be different?" BUT let's follow that same question with "Now that I have both the experience and knowledge, what can I do with it?"

If I knew then, what I know now...I would have saved more money in college as well as paid some of the interest down.
Now that I have both the experience and knowledge, I can save money NOW and work with my creditors to decrease the interest as well as find opportunities to have financial freedom.


Now...YOU TRY!
If I knew then, what I know now... ____________________________________________...
Now that I have both the experience and knowledge, _____________________________...

Sometimes Every time we observe what we did in the past, learn from it, and accept it it will make us better in the present and at our best in the future.

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Motivational Monday= Thoughtful Thursday

So....my birthday was on Tuesday. I celebrated by spending a four day weekend in Orlando with one of my best friends, the awesome Bougie Budgetista, and my honey when I returned. Yes, I know I missed my opportunity to inspire and motivate you on Monday, but don't worry I shall leave you with some thoughts that I gathered while on vacation.


Thought 1:
Whatever you are going through right now...is only temporary. Sometimes terrible, or what we perceive as terrible, situations happen to us at the craziest of times, but honestly it is only temporary. Focusing on things and people that really matter will help the temporary heartache to pass.

Thought 2:
Go with the flow. As much as I like to plan (I mean I am an event planner!), it is always refreshing to let your troubles go and just go with the flow. Sure you wanted to go to the beach, but how awesome is it to just go shopping, hang with friends, or watch a movie with your significant other?

Thought 3:
Positive and great friends are a gift from above...seriously. When you think you look your worse, can't go any harder, feel like a fool, or go through a tough time, they are there to pick you up and help you see you at your best.

Thought 4:
Everyone needs a vacation...including you. As hard as you work and as much as you take care of others, sometimes it is good to simply get away from it and everyone and just take a vacation. Whether it's with friends or alone, a vacation is the treat you get for the hard work you put it.

Thought 5:
The reason they call it life is so that we'll live it.

I hope my thoughts from my vacay can help you in your life today, tomorrow, or another day.

The Unemployed [but Empowered and now relaxed] Entrepreneur

Thursday, December 23, 2010

SOA Event Design: The Holiday Table Scape

As SOA Event Concepts grows, so does my ambition to take it to the next level. Eventually I want to get into the event and interior design field with my company, as well as other avenues. As the holidays approach, it seemed like the perfect opportunity to test my design skills. Special thank you to my friends, Mattie and Chris James, for allowing me to test my design skills in their dining room.

Look at some of the left over holiday decor or the off season decor you have lying around the house and let your creative mind do the decorating. Use these photos for inspiration for your upcoming holiday party or holiday dinner decor.

Glitz and Snow: A Contemporary Design
This design was inspired by the large mosaic vases. With an emphasis on the color silver showcased in different ways and pops of purple, this design can go beyond just any holiday party. It's perfect for a New Years dinner!

Wish
Most of us wish for happiness and family time for the holidays. Make your wishes known. A nice decorative display lets everyone know what you're thinking. With pine cone and red ornament accents, you can transform your dinner table or buffet into a beautiful holiday display. *SOA secret: turn a clear square vase on its side, fill it with decorative ornaments and you've instantly created a neat display stand*



Roman Holiday
I was inspired by the gold fruit and pedestal vases for this design. Going along with the holiday theme, Christmas ornaments went from tree decor to table design instantly. The little horn accents where cleverly added as place card or menu holders and centerpiece accents.

Deck the Halls

Poinsettias, THE holiday flower. Or at least I like to think so. I allowed the Poinsettias to be the star of this tablescape and added a simple touch with the ornaments by hanging them from the chandelier. It was a nice touch as it appears to be hovering over the pedestal vases. An assortment of candles finishes the look off. *SOA secret: who says all of your candles have to match or strictly be votives? Add some pizazz by adding scented and/or colored candles to your display*

I had a great time putting together these displays and diving into the artistic side of my creativity. To check out more inspiration, Like us on Facebook and browse our album I hope these designs give you a ton of ideas and inspiration for how to decorate for your holiday party or dinner.

The Unemployed [but Empowered] Entrepreneur


Friday, November 19, 2010

Five reasons we should teach kids about entrepreneurship

Remember when you got your first taste of entrepreneurship? For me it was girl scout cookies. Back then I didn't even realize that I was a part of my own enterprise since I basically gave my mom the sales form to take to work. It wasn't until I was in high school that I truly started to understand what being an entrepreneur was and how you become enveloped in the competitiveness of being either the first or the best. I always went out wanting to be the best.

In high school I sold gourmet cheesecakes for my chorus class. I ended up becoming one of the top sellers and having the best sales pitch. I enjoyed it because I felt a sense of accomplishment. I experienced healthy competition. I got the opportunity to be responsible and learn basic accounting practices. I could choose who, how, and how often I wanted to target my prospects. Best of all I was able to run the show how I wanted to.

Nowadays kids are, pardon my cynicism, lazy. Everything is done for them. Creativity is lacking and the need to be independent is decreasing. How can we prevent today's youth from becoming tomorrow's robots? By encouraging them to not only think for themselves and be creative, but to also teach them how to be entrepreneurs. How often do you see a kid with a lemonade stand or talking to his or her neighbor about cutting grass?

Lemonade Stand Pictures, Images and Photos
Five reasons we should teach kids about entrepreneurship:
  1. We need them to learn responsibility in a fast paced, small business world. It's not enough to teach our growing kids about responsibility. When they get to a certain age, we need to teach them the next step of responsibility. Since I started my business, I've learn ALOT about responsibility and taking it for my actions. What better way to teach them than through experience?

  2. Helps their focused. So often doctors, teachers, and family members are misdiagnosing kids with ADD or ADHD stating that they lack focus. Well I honestly think it's because we don't give them enough to do. When I play my games on my iTouch, my attention span goes pretty quickly too. But when my focus is on things I need to take care of for my business or things I need to read to get ahead in business my focus is very narrow.

  3. Because let's be honest....school is not for everyone. If we continue to ignore the fact that some kids will never finish school and never go to college we are hurting ourselves as a culture. Some kids work better being hands on or learning from experience. Some kids want to be entrepreneurs but just don't have the attention span, time, or wherewithal to go to school. Experience is the best teacher.

  4. It has been said that kids are failing horribly when it comes to subjects such as reading and math because they just aren't engaging themselves enough. How do you teach a kids how to read when they don't feel like it and then teach him or her arithmetic? Have them read something that interests them, first of all, and then teach them arithmetic by learning how to count money and build from there. One of the ways I learned how to count was by money. In the business world, the one thing you have to understand if you want to make it is to understand how to count money...properly.From there you can build so many other things into it such as fractions, long division, and algebra.

  5. The most important reason we should teach kids about entrepreneurship....financial independence. As an entrepreneur, I feel free knowing that the money that is in my bank account or the check that has been made out to me was provided to me because of my hard work and skills. When we learn to work for ourselves, we gain a real sense of financial independence and freedom. We learn to be our own boss and make our own money. Financial independence and how we teach it to our kids will be what sets them apart from the hardships that we are facing now.

When we teach our kids to work for themselves and make a living off of it, every lesson we try to teach them comes full circle. From responsibility to focus to financial freedom the entrepreneurs that we breed today will become the innovators of tomorrow. We've all had a taste of entrepreneurship one way or another when we were younger, now it's time we give our children a real feast in entrepreneurship!

The Unemployed [but Empowered] Entrepreneur